This post kicks off a new monthly series where I’ll be talking about little rituals of self-care and natural beauty recipes for that radiant glow inside and out. But before we dive into the external, let’s talk about real beauty for a minute.
If there’s one thing a personal yoga practice has taught me is that you must, absolutely must, take the time to nurture yourself each and every day. These little daily rituals are really meditations on self-love. When we dedicate time daily to nourish our bodies and souls, we cultivate a deep respect and love for ourselves. And when we radiate deep love for ourselves and others – isn’t this the heart of true natural beauty? We can apply all sorts of organic, chemical-free creams, eat a every known superfood we can cram into our green smoothies, and spend 8 hours a week in hot yoga classes – but if we don’t love ourselves at the end of the day, then what’s the point?
We all have routines, and most women have some sort of “beauty routine” in the mornings or evenings. But how much time do we spend in those moments really being present with ourselves and giving thanks to our bodies for being healthy and working hard everyday? This past month, I’ve stepped up my morning routine and turned it into sacred rituals of self-love. I spend 30 minutes or so in the morning working through a series of practices that get me feeling so good by the end it’s hard not to love yourself and others a little bit more. So each month I’ll be sharing these practices in hopes that you can view your own routine as a ritual for cultivating true beauty – radiant self-love.
In Ayurveda, this daily ritual of self-care is called Dinacharya. In Sanskrit, Dina means day, sun or flow, and Charya means practice or conduct. These daily rituals were developed to keep the body in tune with the natural earth cycles and rhythms of the day. Dinacharya practices particularly emphasize the mornings as your most sacred time, as these hours create the foundation for the rest of your day.
You must rise in order to start your day! If you can get to sleep before 10pm, it’s recommended to wake before the sun rises. According to Ayurveda, there are specific times that are best to wake for each different body type, your dosha. (To explore your dosha, take this quiz here.)
Vata types: 6am
Pitta types: 5:30am
Kapha types: 4:30am
Before you race out of bed, take a few moments to set an intention for your day, a focus or theme you hope to carry forward with you once you get out from under the covers.
Sip Warm Water
Heat up some water on your kettle and sip a glass of warm water with a squeeze of lime juice with ¼ cup of aloe vera juice, if your bowels are slow to move. Lime juice and aloe work to alkalize your system and stimulate your digestion.
What goes in must come out. Elimination is the key to optimal health. Before you race off to your coffee and emails, make sure you create time and a quiet space to release everything from your previous day – or even week sometimes. The body loves routine, give it that in the mornings. Self massage on the abdomen and deep slowing breathing is a wonderful way to gently stimulate elimination.
Wash the Face
Splash the face with cold water to stimulate circulation to the skin. Dry your face gently with a clean towel. Spritz with rosewater afterwards.
Using a stainless steel or copper tongue scraper, scrape the tongue 7-14 times to remove the built up plaque and bacteria from the tongue before brushing the teeth or oil pulling.
This is a powerful practice of gargling/swishing oil around the mouth to remove bacteria from the teeth and improve gum health. You can use coconut oil or untoasted sesame oil. Coconut oil is an antifungal, and is usually recommended for this practice. It’s also lighter and easier to swish around in the mouth. Take 1-2 tablespoons, and without swallowing, circulate around the mouth for 5-20 minutes. The full practice is 20 minutes, but it takes a few weeks to build up to this. Brush your teeth well after spitting the oil out. Read here to learn more about oil pulling.
Neti kriya, or jala neti, is the practice of rinsing purified water through the nasal passages to clean the sinus cavity and improve respiratory health. You can purchase a ceramic neti pot here or at most health food stores. If you have excess mucous, add a pinch of non-iodized salt to the slightly warm water. Follow these instructions on performing neti.
After performing neti, use your pinky finger or a cue tip to gently apply sesame oil to the inside of the nostrils. Special herbal oils, called nasya oil, can be used in place of the regular sesame oil.
Garshana, or dry skin brushing, is the practice of brushing your skin with raw silk or a natural vegetable bristle brush to remove dead skin and stimulate lymph drainage in the body. Start at your feet and work your way towards the heart with a gentle pressure. Read more about the how-to’s of dry skin brushing here.
After scrubbing the dry body for 5-10 minutes, apply a very liberal amount of natural, edible oils like sesame (vata types), coconut (pitta types), or almond (kapha types). Oiling the skin before you shower also protects your bodies natural oils. Read more about the practice of abhyanga here.
Our daily showers or baths is an act of cleansing, we remove past impurities we no longer want to hold on to. In this act, what else can you release emotionally, mentally or spiritually during this practice?
Take 5 minutes to be still. Sit with yourself and just observe. If you prefer a moving meditation (yoga, tai chi, running), go for this but try to approach it with a still and clear mind.
Take some hot herbal tea to stimulate the digestion and enjoy a breakfast of your choice. Whatever it is, try to keep this same mindfulness as you chew each bite. More on this eating meditation (Bhoj Kriya) here.
Okay, so maybe this sounds like a lot to get started with. If you’re worried about not having enough time in the morning, pick 2 activities to start with and see how you can increase them from there. You can also break them up and do a few in the evening, like your abhyanga oil massage practice and journaling reflecting. But most importantly, if you take anything away from this, remember to create a space of self love as you move through any self practice – that’s the most important thing!